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Gold
Coast, Brisbane Tweed & Byron Bay


MY
PLEDGE TO YOU
I will meet with you and craft a ceremony with the balance of formality,
romance, even humour or spirituality that you desire. All with your input
and approval. Your wedding is your special day. Together we will make
it all you want it to be.


WHAT IS A CELEBRANT?
Celebrants
are Professional Officiants who Create Personal Ceremonies to Honour and
Celebrate Life's Milestones: Weddings, Commitments, Gay and Lesbian Ceremonies,
Renewals of Vows, Baby Namings, Adoption Ceremonies, Coming-of-Age Ceremonies,
Birthdays, Special Achievements, Divorce Ceremonies, Survivor Ceremonies,
Rites of Passage, Funerals, Memorials, and Civic and Corporate Ceremonies.
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PERSONALISE
YOUR VOWS
Adapt what you read here to
meet your needs.
Here is a range of vows, including
traditional vows and vows adapted from other sources which are suitable
for commitment ceremonies. Mix and match the words that are best for you.
They are numbered just so you can make a quick reference.
YOUR
COMMITMENT VOWS
In Australia, the law defines who can be legally married and what defines
a legal marriage. Commitment ceremonies carry only love and peer blessing;
they do not qualify as legal marriage.
TRADITIONAL
VOWS
CV1. (Name), I take you to be my life partner. Before these witnesses
I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take
you, with all your faults and strengths, as I offer myself to you with
all my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and turn
to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend
my life.
CV2.
I, (name) take you, (name) to be my life partner. To have and to hold
from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer,
in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish, 'til death do us part.
Thereto I pledge my love.
CV3.
Will you have this (man/woman) to be your life partner, to live together
in a truthful and harmonious union? Will you love (him/her), comfort (him/her),
honour (him/her), and keep (him/her) in sickness and in health, and forsaking
all others, be faithful to (him/her) as long as you both shall live? (Partners)
: I will.
CV4.
This ring I give you, in token and pledge of our constant faith and abiding
love.
CV5.
(Name), Our miracle lies in the path we have chosen together. I enter
into this commitment to you knowing that the true magic of love is not
to avoid changes, but to navigate them successfully. Let us commit until
death parts us. Let us commit to the miracle of making each day work together.
CV6.
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my Life Partner. I promise to be true
to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love
you and honour you all the days of my life.
CV7.
I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful
Partner.
CV8.
I give you this ring as a symbol of my vow, and with all that I am,
and all that I have, I honour you.
CV9.
(Name), I covenant with you to be your Life Partner. I offer you my
love and my support throughout all of our lives. I commit myself to years
of growth and sharing as I encourage you to move in new direction. I will
strive to achieve my potential and will celebrate your progress toward
the same goal. I give myself as I am and as I will be, and I do it for
all of life.
CV10.
Respecting each other, we commit to live our lives together for all
the days to come. (Name), I ask you to share this world with me, for good
and ill. Be my partner, and I will be yours.
CV11.On
this day (month, day, year), I , (name), join myself to you, (name), before
this company. May our days be long, and may they be seasoned with love,
understanding, and respect.
CV12.
Today we move from "I" to "We". (Name), take this
ring as a symbol of my decision to join my life with yours until death
should part us. I walked to this place to meet you today; we shall walk
from it together.
CV13.
Now we stand together; may it always be so. (Name), I offer myself
to you today as your Life Partner; I will always love you, respect you
and be faithful to you.
CV14.
Come health, happiness, and prosperity, I will stand with you; come
illness, trouble, or poverty, I will stand with you. Take this ring, (name),
as a sign of my love and commitment.
CV15.
Today, (name), I join my life to yours, not merely as your Life Partner,
but as your friend, your lover, and your confidant. Let me be the shoulder
you lean on, the rock on which you rest, the companion of your life. With
you I will walk my path from this day forward.
CV16.
I came here today, (name), to join my life to yours before this company.
In their presence I pledge to be true to you, to respect you, and to grow
with you through the years. Time may pass, fortune may smile, trials may
come; no matter what we may encounter together, I vow here that this love
will be my only love. I will make my home in your heart from this day
forward.
CV17.
I have enjoyed the time we've spent talking about what our different paths
have meant to us. We have discovered much that we share in common. It
is my prayer that the candles we have lit together today in unity will
enlighten our path to the future. I promise to honour your traditions
as I honour you.
CV18.
I offer you not the "summer of my life" but the autumn,
brisk and vibrant. I promise to be a companion worthy of your precious
friendship. I pledge you compassion in good times and bad; encouragement
in sickness and health. It is my intent that our life together include
our large circle of friends and loving families. We'll cherish the memories
of our individual pasts; and create our new life as we go now together.
CV19.
Our love has opened windows to the worlds we lived in as children. I have
found profound respect for your heritage; but, I am not part of it. We
have vowed to live our adult lives together. Our partnership will be a
new creation. Now I promise to build bridges of understanding and share
the best of myself with your family, your friends and you.
CV20.Since
I have found you, (name), I have found a new life. The decision to commit
to share that life with you is one I make happily and with full confidence
in our love. (Name), let us be Life Partners forever.
Be
it casual or formal, your commitment ceremony is a ritual to declare your
love to the friends and family who have gathered to support you.
Choose a celebrant early so that you are
not left with too few choices.
"When you take dancing lessons, you learn steps and you learn
steps and you learn steps. It can go on for a long time. And then
one day, you just learn to dance, and it is so different."
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Bill Austin
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PERSONALITY VOWS
Vows vary from couple to couple and should reflect
your personalities and beliefs. They may be simple recognition of
a de facto relationship or they could be written to incorporate
the joining of two families and the children from each family. Choose
words that are appropriate and important to you.
Ceremonies,
poems
& info to plan
your day
Please
feel free to use anything you find ... even if I don't have the
honour of being your celebrant.
Words
have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true
and kind, they can change our world.
Buddha
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