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Gold
Coast, Brisbane Tweed & Byron Bay


MY
PLEDGE TO YOU
I will meet with you and craft a ceremony with the balance of formality,
romance, even humour or spirituality that you desire. All with your input
and approval. Your wedding is your special day. Together we will make
it all you want it to be.


CHOOSING
A CELEBRANT
Celebrants officiate at personalized civil-secular, nondenominational,
religious, spiritual and multicultural wedding ceremonies.
Your Celebrant will help you create a ceremony that reflects
the beliefs beliefs and traditions you find important. You should be able
to talk with a celebrant before you book them. After all, you need to
ensure that the celebrant is on the same page as you.
Once booked, celebrants interview you to learn your personal
story, collaborate with you to write the ceremony, rehearse with you,
if necessary, and officiate on the big day.
QUESTIONS
TO ASK A POTENTIAL CELEBRANT
If you are not having a church wedding (70% of Australians don't), finding
a suitable civil celebrant for your wedding is extremely important.
START
EARLY
& ASK QUESTIONS
It
is easy to get caught up in the excitement of planning the reception but
the ceremony is the core of your day. Many couples leave choosing the
celebrant too late and find that their preferred celebrant is already
booked months in advance and they end up with a celebrant who does not
make their day the special event it should be. Book early and ask these
questions:
How
do you create the ceremony?
Your celebrant must interview you to understand your beliefs, your values,
and what makes your love so special. Then creates a ceremony based on
your needs.
Do
we have final approval overwhat will be said?
It is your wedding, don't be railroaded.
When
will you be there?
The officiant must be there at least 20 minutes before the ceremony to
coordinate details with readers, musicians and people such as photographers.
Does
your fee include a rehearsal at the venue? Most celebrants are happy
to have a rehearsal but for an additional fee for their time. If the celebrant
is made aware of everything that you have planned, there may be no need
for a rehearsal.
Do
you provide a public address system? For large weddings or difficult
outdoor venues, the celebrant may provide a PA system for the ceremony
only not for the reception. Most often it is not required.
Can we face our guests? Yes. After all the guests are there to
see to you married, not see the celebrant.
What
training do you have?
Barry Pierce's Bio
In Australia all wedding celebrants must be authorised by the Australian
Government and are governed by a Code of Conduct..
Your celebrant will have a registration number which you can ask for.
Celebrants do re-training courses each year.
How
will you work with our wedding photographer? Your celebrant should
be aware that you'll want wonderful keepsakes of this day and will work
with musicians, photographers and videographers to enable them to get
the best shots.
Will
you provide us with a copy of our ceremony? If you require a written
copy of the words spoken at your wedding, your celebrant should provide
them for you, preferably printed on quality presentation paper.
FURTHER
QUESTIONS?
Call Barry Pierce
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Code
of Practice
for Marriage Celebrants
(regulation 37L)
1
Application of this Code of Practice
This Code of Practice applies to marriage celebrants (being persons registered
under Subdivision C of Division 1 of Part IV of the Marriage Act 1961).
Note Under paragraph 39I (1) (b) of the Marriage Act 1961, if the Registrar
of Marriage Celebrants is satisfied that a marriage celebrant has not
complied with an obligation under section 39G of that Act, including this
Code of Practice, the Registrar may take disciplinary measures against
the marriage celebrant.
2.
High standard of service
A marriage celebrant must maintain a high standard of service in his or
her professional conduct and practice.
3.
Recognition of significance of marriage
A marriage celebrant must recognise the social, cultural and legal significance
of marriage and the marriage ceremony in the Australian community, and
the importance of strong and respectful family relationships.
4.
Compliance with the Marriage Act and other laws
A marriage celebrant must:
(a) solemnize marriages according to the legal requirements of the Marriage
Act 1961; and
(b) observe the laws of the Commonwealth and of the State or Territory
where the marriage is to be solemnized; and
(c) prevent and avoid unlawful discrimination in the provision of marriage
celebrancy services.
5.
General requirements for marriage ceremonies
A marriage celebrant must respect the importance of the marriage ceremony
to the parties and the other persons organising the ceremony. To that
end, the marriage celebrant must do the following:
(a) give the parties information and guidance to enable them to choose
or compose a marriage ceremony that will meet their needs and expectations;
(b) respect the privacy and confidentiality of the parties;
(c) maintain appropriate facilities to interview parties and provide office
facilities, including facilities for the secure storage of records;
(d) within a reasonable time before the marriage ceremony:
(i) confirm all details with the parties; and
(ii) ensure the return of all personal documents belonging to the parties
(unless it is necessary to keep the documents for the ceremony); and
(iii) sign any necessary declarations;
(e) if requested by the parties, conduct a marriage ceremony rehearsal;
(f) ensure that his or her personal presentation is of an appropriate
standard for the marriage ceremony, and respect the expectations of the
parties in relation to the ceremony;
(g) make efforts to ensure that the marriage ceremony is audible to all
those present (using audio equipment, if required);
(h) ensure accuracy in the preparation of documents, and in the conduct
of the marriage ceremony;
(i) arrive at the venue for the marriage ceremony no later than the time
agreed with the parties;
(j) if the marriage celebrant has agreed to perform more than one marriage
ceremony on the same day:
(i) ensure that the parties to each marriage receive a level of service
that meets their separate and special requirements; and
(ii) be available at the venue for each marriage ceremony at least 20
minutes before the agreed commencement of each ceremony (unless, in the
case of consecutive ceremonies, the ceremonies are to be held at the same
venue);
(k) ensure that all relevant documents are completed and sent to the appropriate
registering authority within 14 days after the marriage ceremony, as required
by section 50 of the Marriage Act 1961;
(l) in relation to the provision of marriage services, accept evaluative
comment from the parties, and use any comments to improve performance;
(m) give the parties information about how to notify the Commonwealth
Attorney-General's Department of any concerns or complaints they may have
regarding the marriage services provided by the marriage celebrant.
6.
Knowledge and understanding of family relationships services
A marriage celebrant must:
(a) maintain an up-to-date knowledge about appropriate family relationships
services in the community; and
(b) inform parties about the range of information and services available
to them to enhance, and sustain them throughout, their relationship.
Complaints
and further information on celebrants:
Robert
Garran Offices
National Circuit
BARTON ACT 2600
Tel: (02) 6250 6666 Fax: (02) 6250 5900
ABN: 92 661 124 436
Your
wedding day is one of the most special days of your life, that moment
when you pledge your lives to each other
for life. Choose a celebrant early so that you are
not left with too few choices. 
"To keep your marriage brimming,
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you're wrong, admit it;
Whenever you're right, shut up."
Ogden
Nash
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WHAT IS A CELEBRANT?
Celebrants
are Professional Officiants who Create Personal Ceremonies to Honor and
Celebrate Life's Milestones: Weddings, Commitments, Gay and Lesbian Ceremonies,
Renewals of Vows, Baby Namings, Adoption Ceremonies, Coming-of-Age Ceremonies,
Birthdays, Special Achievements, Divorce Ceremonies, Survivor Ceremonies,
Rites of Passage, Funerals, Memorials, and Civic and Corporate Ceremonies.
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Ceremonies,
poems
& info to plan
your wedding
Please
feel free to use anything you find ... even if I don't have the
honour of being your celebrant.
NOTICE
OF INTENDED MARRIAGE
A completed Notice of Intended Marriage form must be lodged with
your chosen authorised marriage celebrant within 18 months of and
no later than one month and one day prior to your proposed marriage.
You can download the form or fill it in online by using the link
on the right.
When
meeting with your celebrant, ensure that you have all your required
documentation with you eg. birth certificates and evidence that
any prior marriage has been dissolved. If you were not born in Australia,
other documentation will be required. Your celebrant will also require
photocopies of the original documents for filing.
WHAT
YOUR VOWS MEAN
With your marriage, you are entering into solemn vows each with
the other but you are creating more than a loving partnership. You
are creating a legal partnership with tax, property, banking, and
other implications. We recommend that you read the brochure "Happily
Ever Before and After" available free here.
YOUR
WEDDING VOWS
In Australia, as well as the vows you personally choose, all legal
marriages must include the following statement (or words to the
same effect) known as the Monitum. It is spoken by the accredited
celebrant:
Now,
I am duly authorized by the law to solemnize this, your marriage,
according to the laws of Australia. Before you, (name bride),
and you,(name groom), are joined together in marriage in my presence
and in the witness of these, your family and friends, I am bound,
as you know, to remind you publicly of the solemn, the serious
and the binding nature of the relationship into which you are
now about to enter. Marriage, according to the laws of Australia,
is a voluntary and full commitment of a man to a woman, and a
woman to a man. It is made in the deepest sense to the exclusion
of all others, and is entered into with the firm intention that
is will last for life.
CERTIFICATES
After they are signed and witnessed at your wedding, your certificates
will be sent by the celebrant to the Registrar of Marriages in the
state in which the wedding took place. The celebrant will keep a copy
and, at the wedding, you will be given a presentation wedding certificate.
Chances are your mind will be full on your wedding day so the celebrant
may entrust the presentation certificate to a trusted friend or family
member.
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